I find it hypocritical for East Asian (yes, Oriental, don't say Asian and then exclude South Asians, for we find that very offensive too) women to complain about yellow fever, considering that the only ones they date which are not East Asian are whites. How many East Asian women do you see with South Asian men - in other words Oriental women with Desi men (please don't say Asian, when you really mean to say East Asian, as we Indians find that very offensive and ignorant also). White men can be found with women of all races, but East Asian women can almost always be found with either men of their race or with white men. Can we say the real issue is WHITE FETISH. Why have a double standard and accuse white men of yellow fever, when you have WHITE FEVER. Until I see East Asian women dating non-white men, such as Indian men, I will say that most of these women are WHITE FETISHISTS.

WoW Jaymie you must be dating the wrong white guys...maybe you like the big strong and dumb types or the kinky types like yourself because I have been dating and was married and have a beautiful son to one Indonesian woman and I’m just about to marry again a Korean woman and all the women that I’ve been dating for the last 12 years have all been Asian and I have never had or have never approached them on the levels or said the things that have been said to you about Asian, Oriental points that you have been approached by? maybe you instigate that sort of conversation or tease you must be an intimidating type of woman more talk than action and of course guys get frustrated with you because all you do is talk and by your article here I can see why you are so out of luck and out of tune with the white guy...wake up and look at you’re self instead of blaming it on the white guys and the usual Asian prejudices ...this is my remedy for you...good luck Jaymie but further you stick with the Asian guys because the white guy is not for you!

What asian girls really look like: Before and After makeup:

http://jezebel.com/5726759/the-uniform-beauty-of-asian-women-before-and-...

This Asian Boy speaks on Dating White Women

How about Asian men who have a fetish for white girls?

If Asian guys were going out with white girls more this forum wouldn't be so crazy. The problem is that Asian guys are wussies (yea, I said it)

They need to learn the art of the flirting again..from Asian guys who just "get it"

Where Can You Find These Guys? ==>Asian Pimp Status

Had to stop reading the comments posted here. Yeccchh! So many hateful people leaving comments. . .Well, on with my comment about your article:

The only criticisms I have are these 2:

1) The "good" guys who date Asian women aren't represented in this article, so it somewhat comes across as being a bit one-sided in that regard.

2) I find the language of the article to be overtly harsh at times and unnecessarily vulgar (seems odd to me to complain about guys who make rude comments while using vulgar language).

Those 2 points aside, I will commend the fact that you recognize these men and do your best to stay away, and for those Asian women who may not have experienced these types of crappy guys, it may do some good for them to read this (assuming they don't completely avoid white males altogether).

On the last note, you mentioned when a guy would say,

"You oriental girls are kinky."
and then
"I grind my teeth underneath a fake smile as I walk away."

I can't believe that you would actually put up any kind of smile at all if a bozo were actually dumb enough to say such a thing. Why not kick him? Why not tell him off and put him in his place? Why smile and walk away from that? I never even said that to my wife! lol
Of course, our relationship was a different story, too. :/

Ultimately, whomever you date, best wishes to you.

By the way, I really LOVE Chinese food. (just kidding, don't kick me)