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I am from Louisiana, USA, and have one amazing daughter who is 10. I am about to finish my current studies in the university here and have been studying Japanese now for almost six months; I will be traveling to Japan after I finish my courses, work there, and make films. I hope to find and make friends before I go. Please contact me if you are interested!
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Jul 17, 2011 @ 04:26 pm admin said: Team usa! |
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Jul 15, 2011 @ 01:36 am benglishtea said: Hope everyone is having a great week, and great weekend! I'm swamped with work but hope to get an article up about the upcoming Japan vs USA World Cup Final. It's going to be a great game! As a preview, I can say this: the Japanese haven't beat the USA yet, just a couple of ties. However, I believe that this Sunday, it is their time! USA is a great team with a lot of heart, and they fight hard to win. However, I honestly believe that Japan has an equal, if not greater amount of heart, and on top of that, I believe that their skill level is at a very high point right now. They are on top of their game! My body is in the States, but my heart is in Japan. Go Nippon! |
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Jul 15, 2011 @ 01:45 am Methinee said: I liked the Sweden vs Japan article you did..Looking forward to your next one! |
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Jul 17, 2011 @ 12:17 pm benglishtea said: Doumo arigatou gozaimasu! I wanted to post a pre-game article for the Japan vs USA game, but time is something I have little of right now! I will post a synopsis of the final next week! Go Japan! Ganbatte! |
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May 13, 2011 @ 12:10 am benglishtea said: こにちは!!! Just started studying hiragana in preparation for my trip to Beppu, Japan next year! I'm so looking forward to going....I can't wait! よし! |
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May 13, 2011 @ 12:31 am Samantha said: That is great! I love Japan! |
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Jan 24, 2011 @ 10:39 am c00kiem0nsta said: hey there i just wanna say that your daughter is super gorgeous hun xx |
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May 13, 2011 @ 12:05 am benglishtea said: Arigatou gozaimasu! Thanks so much....she is the light of my world. :D |
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Oct 26, 2010 @ 01:08 am benglishtea said: I don't have the time tonight to go into detail, but this film is definitely worth plugging before I go to bed: "Ip Man" Directed by Wilson Yip, starring Donnie Yen, Simon Yam, Lynn Hung, Lam Ka-tung, Xing Yu, and Hiroyuki Ikeuchi. I can honestly say I haven't seen a really, really good film in quite awhile. I did watch Jet Li's "The Warlords" recently, and really liked it. However, that movie did not leave me as satisfied as Ip Man, which is based on the life of the Grand Master who taught the legendary Bruce Lee himself. This movie absolutely does NOT disappoint. It's not just all fighting, and the fighting isn't done with silly string. It has humor, tough times, sadness, and triumph. It is a masterpiece in my book. Highly recommended. : ) I watched the dubbed version, unfortunately (I always prefer subtitles with the original language), but even then they did a great job. |
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Oct 20, 2010 @ 04:15 am benglishtea said: Personal Effort! Since my life and mind are moving into a very international direction, it is only natural that I would stop to ponder at some point my daughter, and what I should be instructing her in, as well as the example that I should be providing. Since she is only 10 years old (in just a couple of weeks, actually), it is just not possible to try and teach her a lot of "heavy" things. I know, because I've tried, and failed - miserably! An idea popped into my head that seems to have been working great so far. I have been listening to different music styles from different cultures around the world, and lately I have really been into some groups from Scotland, Australia, Japan, and even a Jewish reggae outfit. I have never been into "pop" music here in the USA, but the artist that has been in my car's CD player the most lately is Ayumi Hamasaki. After I saw her live performance of "Dearest" recently, she won my heart. I'm not sure why there is such a difference for me between JPoP and pop music here, but it is enough of a difference to make me avoid the one and sift through the other for gems. Back to the subject at hand: in my quest for new musics, I realized that I had a great opportunity to open the door to other cultures for my daughter by using the songs that I find. Upon playing some for her last week, she immediately noticed the difference between what she was accustomed to hearing and what I had now presented to her. At first she thought it was a bit funny to hear the other languages, and I was a bit bothered at that. However, after listening for awhile longer and talking with her, she began to listen more intently and became very interested in what she was hearing. Bingo! So, I realize (once again), that my daughter is very much like me: she doesn't like not understanding something. She went from initially thinking that the music I gave her was just a "joke," to becoming very interested at this "new world" that had opened to her, and desirous that I give her more. So, I believe that my foot is now officially in the door, and my 10 year old punkin who told me a year ago that she was too scared to travel overseas has now begun to exhibit her first signs of curiosity about what is "across the pond." It is a swell feeling to see these things in a child and cultivate them, so that they can more easily become a very well-rounded individual, and the best they can be. I could regret this about my own parents, but I would rather be joyous that my daughter has a father who acknowledges her needs and takes steps to encourage her. |
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Oct 11, 2010 @ 11:10 pm Kitsune 901 said: hey check out one of my favoerite bands |
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Oct 11, 2010 @ 02:27 am benglishtea said: Okay, I think I've gotten enough writing out of my system, and now I can go to bed. Good night, morning, or afternoon, wherever you may be. -B. |
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Oct 10, 2010 @ 11:49 pm Kitsune 901 said: hey i posted some ninjutsu pictures if you want to see :) im the tall one with the Beard lol |
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Oct 10, 2010 @ 11:55 pm benglishtea said: Gotcha - I did see one of you just a few minutes ago. If you create a photo album (like I just did), then it will appear right next to your profile, and is easy for people to see/click it. If you get the chance, check out the ones I posted of me and my daughter. : ) |
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Oct 10, 2010 @ 11:32 pm admin said: We have IM coming up..like reading your conversations. |
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Oct 10, 2010 @ 11:36 pm benglishtea said: IM as in "Instant Messaging?" And thank you for the compliment. I'd sit and write all day long if I were able. Unfortunately, I have other work to do, and am still taking some courses in college. Busy, busy! Good to know that I can say something interesting for someone. : ) |
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Oct 10, 2010 @ 11:40 pm admin said: yes Instant Messaging among your friends on the network! |
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Oct 10, 2010 @ 11:42 pm benglishtea said: Very cool, that will be a nice addition. I'm hoping that I will be able to build a nice network of friends here, myself. Perhaps the IM will allow for better connectedness amongst me and my friends. : ) |
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Oct 10, 2010 @ 10:44 pm Kitsune 901 said: oh im going to teach english up in sapporo japan when im done with college and hopefully get me a girlfrewind/Spouse while im up in japan lol |
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Oct 10, 2010 @ 10:51 pm benglishtea said: Japan was where I was planning to go originally but I was given a tremendous offer for South Korea which no one can beat in Japan. Besides, with no income tax for two years, paid housing and transportation, I can travel to Japan, China, or wherever else I would like to go during my time off. : ) I was married for over 10 years to an American gal here, and she broke my heart. I have always wanted to spend a lot of time in Asia, and I could see myself having a great Asian wife, if that works out. I'm open, however. There are many beautiful, smart, and funny women in this world, brother. -B. |
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Oct 10, 2010 @ 11:02 pm Methinee said: Question is, was the girl who broke your heart Asian? or do you just want an Asian girl b.c a white woman broke your heart? |
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Oct 10, 2010 @ 11:17 pm benglishtea said: That is very a fair question. I'll be as honest as possible. Growing up, I was always interested in many things exclusive to Asia, and especially, Japan. This was mainly because I loved samurais, ninjas, the culture/code of honor. As I got older, I became a big fan of Akira Kurasawa and Toshiro Mifune as I got into old Japanese cinema. I began to see how much western film had stolen from the Asians. All this time, I have found Asian women attractive, but that doesn't mean that I have a "fetish" for them, because to me, if a woman is attractive to me, she is beautiful no matter what her race is. That being said, I have always wondered what it would be like to live in Japan, study martial arts there (I used to take Korean Tae-Kwon-Do), learn the language, and have a family there. However, while I was planning my future here, I met a girl who really, really wanted to be with me, and since I had never had a serious relationship before, I was completely enthralled. From the time we first kissed until our marriage was only 5 months. This was a big mistake, considering how verbally abusive she was, and I ignored all of that. So now, here I am, 35 years old and "starting over," something I didn't want to have to do. Now, I have an opportunity to start a new family, to teach over in Korea and travel around Asia, and to be honest, it feels like I may be able to finally see if finding a wife overseas is the right thing for me. Is it the right thing? I don't know that, but I am open to that. So, I can't say that I just want an Asian wife because a white woman broke my heart, but I am just as open to a caring, loving, loyal, passionate, smart and funny Asian woman as I am a white woman of the same caliber. I realize that not all white women here are like the one I married, but where I live, there are countless numbers of single mothers who have left their husbands (75 out of 100 divorces in the USA are filed for by women). Also, many of the ones I talk to deface the fathers, keep his children from him, and blame all of their problems on him (my ex wife is one of them). So, naturally, it's kind of hard to not be a bit biased when I'm looking for someone to get to know for a potential serious relationship. It just seems like it may be easier to find a young woman for marriage overseas who has not been married and has no children yet, than it is to find such a woman here. I might find one here, I'm not saying I won't, it just seems unlikely. Let me know if I need to clarify any of this. I have a tendency to ramble when I write. : ) -B. |
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Oct 10, 2010 @ 10:56 pm Kitsune 901 said: well me im a christian and ive already had a vision of my spouse SO xD im putting this whole plan in motion now my freind and also if you havent noticed if youve seen my picture that is me in my Ninjutsu courses :) so im pretty devout to ninjutsu if you like martial arts any |
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Oct 10, 2010 @ 11:22 pm benglishtea said: For certain I love martial arts! I used to take Tae-Kwon-Do regularly, and always wanted to study Ninjutsu overseas. I still would like to, even if only for awhile! I pray that you find the woman that God has for you, and you have a tremendous life together! : ) |




























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