I have to agree with NancyLee's point about younger Asian females dating White and moving more toward Asian guys as she gets more serious. It's not easy being an Asian female in this society, at least in New York. On the one hand they are regarded as sexy and desirable and then on the other hand they're regarded as property, sex objects and easy to push around.

On more than one occasion I've acted the knight in shining armor when I witnessed a sweet Asian girl being picked on by a rude conductor or clerk. I've had to get in the offender's face and show them that their behavior is completely unacceptable and will not be tolerated. I hate it when rude idiots get out of line.

While we're on the subject, some may think me superficial and maybe I am to a certain degree. I like my girls to be attractive. But I have noticed that some Asian females who aren't that physically attractive, have really stepped up their game such as in personality, charm, sense of humor and are able to chat up a fair number of subjects. This is something I really haven't noticed about other races of females.

Or maybe I was too superficial to even give them a shot. Yes I've noticed that a good amount of not that pretty, Asian girls are confident and bubbly and have the cajones to approach me and chat me up. Maybe it's a race thing with them; they figure that since I'm Asian too, that they can feel more homey with me and be all kumbya and what not.

Whatever, I always come away with the feeling that that was a nice girl and don't mind in the least spending time with her.

As an Asian male I have always been fascinated by these topics. Keep it up even though many Asian sites have respondents roll their eyes and say, Not this topic again! Secretly, they are interested also.

So yes, I've dated a few females from all backgrounds; Irish, French, Jewish, Italian, Pinay, Latinas, African American, West Indian and tons of Asian girls, of course; Mandarin, Cantonese, Korean, Thai, Japanese, FOBs and American born and Hapas too. Thing is, I've been told I'm the quiet type. I think a lot has to do with perceptions.

Nonetheless, my being (Quiet) hasn't prevented me from dating my butt off. Peeps are going off old stereotypes. I don't like to be loud and rowdy although sometimes I am considering the company I'm with. Some dates I've had bring out the natural comedian in me and my wit comes through time after time.

But I do think that I'm a little shy. It has cost me many, many possible dates. In New York City, everyone takes the trains and buses and it's these encounters where perfectly charming, attractive and outright Hotties have given me the eye but I don't approach. I just flirt back by giving them the eye also. In New York, the females outnumber the males so maybe I take that for granted.

That's not to say that I haven't approached total strangers on the bus or train. I have but maybe I should step it up because there are so many desirable types that ride the happy transits of New York!

that stereotype about small hands/feet is nonsense. My feet are average and my hands are small but my size is over 7.5" and a bit fat (i'm white and I lied about .5" to moderately boost my ego).

Proportions are only slightly relevant but there is a gene that affects penis size and there are random changes during embryonic development that also plays a role. Anyway, if a girl turns me down based on my hands, that's really for the better because she must be quite the bimbo, quite the gaping vagina.

BTW, I wouldn't date any kind of girl who is proud of dating "all the colors of the rainbow". Not simply because you would be a poor life-partner, but for the cold hard fact you're more likely to have STDs.

Why do Asians who "dated" a black guy suddenly think white guys are going to want to jump their bones? This seems to happen to me when I go out to bar. I would have some faith in an sexually aggressive asian girl but 9 times out of 10, she went black and wants to "try out" the white meat like she's going shopping. Well hell no! I had black roommates before and they were all Tiger Woods wannabes, they have no goals (except the BS they tell women) but to find another hole to stick it in each night and it doesn't even matter how grotesque, slutty, or old the girl can be if she's not black. And they seemed like decent guys to people who didn't live with them and see the trash they bring home every night.

So in effect, you're really sleeping with the entire HOOD and therefore I wouldn't touch you with a 10 foot pole. Taste the STD rainbow is more like it. They play that "pity me because I'm black and sensitive", unlike those wild white boys you see in the cliche college movies. "Let's just fight the racism baby". BUUUUUULLL SHIIIIIIITTTTTT! It's not racist for me to profile your character if it affects my health. Our health is the only true treasure we have in this world. Hopefully the tramp-stamped hoes won't procreate so we can evolve our way out of this mess.

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You can't generalise a race by assuming every individual has the same characteristics as the men you have dated. How they are as a person really depends on their personality, beliefs and how they might have been raised. Your article is biased and racist! For your information Asian men are not boring and don’t lack confidence, take this advice from a Caucasian girl who has probably had more dating experience with both Asian and white guys than you!

Thx for the info about white and Asian guys! I'm an Asian girl and I prefer white guys(since I'm still young:)). I might change my opinion when I mature and have more experience on guys. I don't mind their penis size. The first thing I look for in men is good character and how they treat girls. Secondly, I care about looks.(which most girls do) But I don't see a problem with that.:) It's just my opinion. I really hope to have experiences with dating cause I never had.(I know it's rare and with all that I said.) But still.

ohh great! Thank you! :3 You've just confirmed what I've been experiencing for these past 3 weeks. I'm European, but ever since my first boyfriend... I started to get so tired of the unreliable white guys. Not to mention that I don't even like the 'handsome' stereotypes here o.o I've been into asian men for 2-3 years now and 3 weeks ago I just met someone amazing, he is asian.

He is.. simply amazing. For someone like myself who doesn't like too much sweet talking and empty talk or rudeness, this sweet man was like an oasis to me. And he still is.

He is so well-mannered, so considerate, so focused on what we are talking, always making sure we take turns to talk, listens to what I say and understands me, he takes me seriously for who I am and I really feel like I am important for him. When he smiles, I can feel he is honest and it comes from the heart and , indeed, he is very 'aggressive' in obtaining the next date :D, but I don't see it that way. I like him for that, I also like to have things clear and to plan ahead. And this also gives me a feeling of security. When he has an accomplishment, he always makes celebrating with me number 1... I am being surprised and I am so happy every single day. After every date with him I am so excited that I go biking in town at full speed or jump around in one spot haha. it's really childish, but I've never felt this way before. Indeed these boys are shy, but contrary to that they are so determined to get what they want! It is so amazing! And behind those blushing shy cheeks and the silent calculated person, there is a golden heart and it's so warm... you can't help but smile. I know I do!